A Heart Centred Feminine Mission of Global Awakening - to bring us a Higher Love.

“Think about it, there must be higher love. Down in the heart or hidden in the stars above. Without it, life is wasted time. Look inside your heart and I'll look inside mine.”

– Steve Winwood 1986, James Vincent Mc Morrow 2010, Whitney Houston & Kygo 2019.

Since the movement towards female empowerment, women have been led to believe that we have needed to rise up to be treated as ‘equals’, berating the choices men have made by naming, blaming or shaming. Or worse, carrying out behaviours of retaliation to alleviate the wounds not yet reconciled within themselves.

And in some lines of thinking, why shouldn’t they? These wounds stem from centuries of oppression, subjugation, persecution, harassment and cruelty, so its actioning has made sense. And this, mind you, is not just subject to women, but men have been in the line of fire also. Such is the impact of those in power and the effects it can have centuries on.

However, those women who are truly awake do not feel a need to beat, punish, criticize men, or close their hearts and bodies down to them. Nor do they believe that they need to carry out over-compensatory, confrontational or provocative behaviours to be considered ‘an equal’, powerful or enticing to the masculine populace.

Women who are truly awake, aware and whole actually hunger for men. They want their unwavering presence, their solid actions, warrior hearts and dynamic, pursuing energy. Why? Because they have done, or are doing the introspective emotional, mental and spiritual legwork. Due to this, the awakened woman carries more compassion, more unconditional love and more generosity, greater ability to support and nurture, and more sexual power than any other.

Likewise, there are immeasurable and eternally abundant rewards for any man who is courageous enough to risk his heart and life purpose for this kind of woman.

Now before we go any further, a small disclaimer around the nature and reference to the masculine and feminine. Here it is referred to as male and female in relation to how our primary roles have been established in history and up until the present day.

However, the intention of this article and these references, are also inclusive of all identities which fall outside gender binary and relationships which reside within the LGBQTI community. As the masculine and feminine are divine energies which flow within all of us, as the tapestry of our sacred life force energy.

So where are we at now?

Currently, most of the wounded feminine population is struggling with their own inner turmoil, self-esteem and deep issues of self-worth. The masculine may, over history, have contributed to this, but is not solely responsible for the healing and restoration of. That is where her work lies for herself, through whatever course of healing approaches or psycho-therapeutic treatment as she sees fit. Which mind you, is on going work throughout the course of our days here on earth (more on this later).

This wounding (unresolved pain) she carries, often smokescreens, or otherwise completely obstructs a female’s ability to have a deeper conscious empathy toward the man she loves or the men in her life, beyond their current behaviour. The man she loves or desires to love, has most likely not had any role models with this evolved-male-energy in his life. In fact, up until this time in history, relevant male role models have been a rare occurrence indeed!

This is not to say that a woman must ignore behaviours that range from being below his potential, to downright abhorrent. Behaviours such as these, especially the more destructive in nature, are profoundly rooted in fear, greed or a self-serving nature.

Nor is it advocating, that as women, we must not call out or tolerate his failure to recognize when he is only really playing for his own gain and thus, hurting her further in the process. Quite the opposite. True compassion is understanding the origins of these detrimental behaviours and acting accordingly to extinguish their damaging effects in their tracks.

Where it gets complex is that we are ALL prone to these notoriously ugly behaviours and they show up when we feel hurt, fearful or carrying a bushel of shame. They are also often hidden much deeper than we care to admit or what we can acknowledge within ourselves.

Which pertains to the popular colloquialism, which stipulates that “we cannot always see the forest from the trees”. Having ourselves lived with repressed fear, guilt, or shame for so long, we generally cannot effectively recognize or recall it in its full capacity. It is here that it somatically marinates in our cellular memory, waiting for the right trigger to besiege and notify us of its biological existence.

Akin to a woman’s distorted pain-filter, a man does not have to be faultless, dramatic, idealistic-aesthetically pleasing or ‘Bruce Almighty’ for her either. He only has to nurture that flicker within his precious masculine heart, which wants him to become his best masculine self. The man that he was born to be, his full potential, his highest self. This is a HUGE step for men and one giant leap for mankind.

On a more serious note though, this is so, because men have long been humiliated themselves, for their sensitivity, emotional expression and true nature which runs deep within. Often cloaked by behaviours that have been adopted to overcompensate for the unfathomable degradation, compounded via familial, ancestral, societal and cultural conditioning. Somehow beckoning him to be ‘more’ in the worst possible ways.

This happens with the unfortunate amassing of unruly and insensitive coping mechanisms, which have wrapped themselves around a beautifully, endearing and courageous heart. Which has yet to have the full opportunity to breathe, to see the light of day, or be all it can be for itself and the eagerly awaiting feminine.

In light of this, it is paramount that a man is willing and humble enough to LEARN FROM the healing and healed feminine. To be brave enough to listen intently to her honest responses to his actions and realize that she is the honourable truth for him, communicating with him the harm being received from his greatest self-defeating behaviours and destructive temptations lie.

For such a man carrying out this compassionate role, who is indeed courageous enough, to risk his heart and life purpose for such a female - there are limitless and eternally abundant rewards.

When man does indeed meet a true, awakened female, it arouses a new sensation in him. If you will, entertain the lyrics of ‘New Sensation’ by INXS for one fine moment. This meeting between the two, activates specific levels of consciousness in him, which then demands his full attention.

This calls attention to, and succinctly answers the question as to why so many beautiful, intelligent and talented women are choosing to walk their path alone. A woman who is on the path of Light/divine truth / love, (or in other words, honestly facing her own shit and pain head on), will not settle for any man. Irrespective of how deeply she has longed for a male presence in her life.

So, having processed this, how do we know if we are leading, as females, from a place of wounding or if we are truly leading from a healing or healed, awakened place of soulful essence?

Well, you will not find the whole, awakened, conscious female acting needy or desperate around the masculine. This doesn’t mean that she hasn’t acknowledged her deep inner desire and higher requirements for a male presence, to be in her life. She is aware of this better than any woman who has not yet opened up to her full powers and strengths.

So how do we as females know if we are a woman who has awoken/is awakening to her full expression?

On the contrary to some ruthless and unfortunately nasty tactics that some wounded women can bestow upon the male collective (or one another for that matter), the awakened woman knows that the masculine plays a vital role in her life journey, and has the ability to open her up in ways that she cannot do alone.

However, this yearning for such a man, can be put on hold for several years (decades even), if she is not being met with the kind of masculine presence and devotion that she needs in order to serve her inspirationally divine feminine role. In other words, she has no desire nor the energy to mother, rescue, badger or coach a man into loving her. She simply says NO to what insults her mission and continuously chooses herself in every moment, thereby showing the masculine how to love her as genuinely as she has learnt to love herself.

This process of choosing herself becomes increasingly easier, as she continues her journey, healing any issues around her own inner turmoil, self-esteem and deep issues of self-worth. Often with the assistance of other awakened women, who can see her and are also on the path of truth.

So how does the masculine collective know that they are truly beginning to support the feminine in their divine mission?

When the Masculine meets the conscious feminine’s energetic signature, he instantly realizes what is needed. Her healing spiritual energy will cause his own to wake up to itself. His masculine energy is stimulated deeply and feels a pull on the soul-strings of his famished, misplaced and forgotten heart. He realizes that although it is easy to lose himself in the magnificent, ancient cosmic energy sway of her body and the warmth of her heavenly eyes, in order to stand next to her as a totem of divine masculine strength, he must rise up in his own life.

He will become quickly aware that it will not be enough to apathetically get what he wants and vanish into thin air, or the unsuspecting arms of another wounded female for that matter. That is just more cowardice. He will recognize that even if he enters into a relationship with her that her trust in him will not deepen, unless he starts seriously showing up in his own life – and begins to rise like a phoenix towards his full potential and purpose.

So how does the masculine know which of the divine feminine can assist him into the furthest most expanded version of himself?

He will know her by her energy. Her awakened energy will not tolerate the spiritually-sleepy masculine tendencies towards denial, avoidance, staying in his comfort zone, over-reliance on quick fixes and instant gratification, or being a downright coward. Cowardice is a key component here. Cowards a prone to not facing the music, of their own life. Cowards hurt people and feel no remorse. Cowards run away from tough problems, they continuously lie to and try to fool everyone around them causing immeasurable humiliation and then some. Being courageous, on the other hand, is difficult and not always fulfilling.

The feminine’s admired energy will pull him up out of his unconscious or otherwise cowardice-coma, so that he feels on an instinctual level, just how potent and transformational her loving could really be. Also feeling how being the recipient of the healing encryptions in her body and truly loving her, prompts a firing of the neurons and electrical transmitters in his entire system. This very act will generate an awareness within of just how much of a man he is required to evolve into.

In this moment, he appreciates that she is the greatest gift that has ever crossed his path. He realizes that he may never have another opportunity like this one to be supported in becoming the best version of himself possible. He is aware that there is no other woman on the planet who could love him like this, and fire up his energy centres into creating the purpose he has always wanted to live, but has always been too afraid to fully commit to.

It is his decision whether or not he is brave enough to take the challenge of loving, and standing next to, a woman who has claimed her place as a feminine warrior and her ever-flowing reserve of unconditional love. It really becomes his choice in numerous ways. Although ultimately, she will be the one to decide whether or not she wishes to see him again, or let him into her realm – she is always doing that based on the quality of truth, assurance, commitment and enthusiasm that she receives from him, and not gutlessness or wound-distorted concept of what that is to her.

When his higher self (his real self), brings him to an energetically whole woman, he must sit and contemplate, in order to really grasp that he has elected this meeting – because a significant part of him is ready to rise into being a whole man. This is a massive deal, for a woman who is on the path of truth seeking will not settle for any man, no matter how deeply she has longed for a male presence in her life.

So what is our role as women in relation to the masculine waking up to their responsibility as an open-hearted supporter of the divine feminine mission of global awakening?

Our role as awakened women is to comprehend from the same place deep in our soul, that the masculine, at times, will have moments where he will stumble, he will fall and even collapse in the wake of defying his old patterns, challenging his ability to walk beside women who are passionately and persistently changing the world. In these moments, we must not let our unresolved pain get the better of us and instead, come from a place of compassionate understanding and forgiveness, knowing that the masculine only wants to remember how to live in his higher truth, and strengthen his ability to honestly earn our trust and to know that he really is ‘enough’.

For us, that requires, healing our unresolved traumas, from deep within our energetic and physical bodies. Yes, even awake and aware women carry unresolved shame and the remanence of generational trauma and fear based indoctrination and conditioning. It requires us to be mindful amidst our own pain, that his soul really only wants to convey that he yearns to be a pioneer of a new movement.

A movement of conscious, evolving, willing males that are courageous enough to be open-hearted. He wants to be enveloped in the radiance of the feminine’s perpetual truth, for the rest of his days, remembering daily, what a gift she is to his soul. He wants to walk into brave new territories, risking rejection and even failure so that her trust in him soars, like a bird in flight.

He wants us to be his conscious-mirror. Honestly reflecting back to him all the ways in which he sabotages, denies and limits himself. He needs our conscious and compassionately-gutsy prompts in this, because deep down, he craves to hear that we trust in him, and to show us that our trust in him is accurately perceived - much like the impressively precise Judge Judy, in her finest hours. (Bless her no-bullshit cotton socks).

He needs this from us. To realize the gravitas of this foundational trust, which cultivates a significant difference in how deeply we can open our body and heart to him when we are in each other’s presence. It also reinforces that whenever he courageously takes a risk to rise into his divine masculine power and purpose, our sexual attraction to him increases exponentially.

So what are the requirements of the masculine collective, in waking up to their responsibility as open-hearted supporters of the divine feminine’s mission?

First and foremost, he needs to become aware and retain the fact, that if he shuts down his heart at the first hint of her truth-laden expressions or body language – he will not win at this game. That is to say, he needs to hear what she is teaching him about his behaviour, refrain from avoiding the feedback and honestly work through any emotional triggers that arise from this reflection. In amidst this, he needs to remember, that woman cannot be expected to ‘mother’ their man into being a grown-up. He needs to relinquish the idea that the role of a female is ‘to be his mother’ and if he wants to have a sexually-vibrant and transformative love life with her, why this is importantly so.

This process of accepting feedback, will alter between different temperaments. We all reside on a spectrum of differing sensitivities, which must be witnessed and compassionately nurtured at a deeper level. This also where the selection of different types of therapies and therapists are vital to the individual’s healing, growth and flourishing.

What is clinically sublime to some is restrictive and suffocating to others and what is supposed ‘Woo-Woo’ to some, is deeply nourishing and transformative to others, especially with the ever increasing uprising of sensitive souls needing a more gentle approach. High levels of respect for these differences must be cultivated within us and adopted in relation to accepting all ways that the human spirit chooses to heal itself, through the prism of its individual beings.

So why is all of this healing of the wounded masculine and feminine so important right now?

We don’t need more people telling us that our world is dying. It is clear now as we look around at the state we have managed to get it in, via an innumerable amount of unsustainable wastage, an ever increasingly defunct system and the vexatious talons of greed. This inertia toward our beautiful Gaia, has accumulated from living safe lives, which we have been too afraid to live contrary to.

Instead of this, we all need to assist one other to rise up into purpose, our own (soul’s path) as individuals and as a collective. Fully taking responsibility for FEELING and HEALING our own deeply entrenched pain from our well-intended, or abusive childhoods, from ancestral lines which produce misperceptions of life and our distorted fear-based concepts of reality. Having the courage to get to the bare bones of it and healing it from deep within.

We need to do this NOW more than ever so we can fully be of service to humanity and mother earth. So we can concentrate our energies on loving our planet, the only physical home we have. This way we can do it full of VIGOUR and CONVICTION, because we can fully love every facet of our unique and beautifully individuated and actualised selves, through having done the work. Where feelings of helplessness and hopelessness cannot linger for too long, because we are so connected to our soul’s mission, and our intertwined purposes of collective unity and planetary welfare (however that manifests itself for us individually).

It is time NOW, for men to embrace and take heed of the wisdom of spiritual, soulful or soul-embodied women (whichever of these descriptors makes sense to you). This is because their soul is already awakened and beaming with truth. Her soul recognises how imperative it is to act to quench our dying world’s thirst for new life. For restoration, for love and new growth. To create deep lasting change within our minds and hearts, through transmuting all that no longer serves us from the origins and ages of female AND male oppression, persecution and domination because this has no place here in our bodies or on our planet any longer.

This is not the time for women to try to get their “power back”, we have had it all along, Dorothy.

Rather, this is the time of women to take full responsibility for healing their unresolved pain and trauma for themselves at their core, and the emergence of the masculine presence rising up into his divine, spiritual, soul centred-self. Taking new bold strides in stepping up to the plate in his inner authenticity, facing his shit head on, and committing to living from there.

Please note, this soul-centred-self does not necessarily equate to having to wear traditional spiritual garb or standing on top of some holy shrine, drinking Monk-blessed cacao (although he can if he thinks it helps his crusade). Rather it simply means, that it is time for him to rise up in his own authenticity, to support and protect females in their sacred femininity, who are ALREADY a powerful force - in a Mission of a Global Awakening.

Bringing in a higher love.

This blog has been inspired by the beautiful Asher Elle. Find her truth at https://oraclesofelle.com/